As we acknowledge Mental Health Awareness Month and Sober October, it is a good time to talk about the deep connection between addiction, recovery and mental health. In South Africa, nearly 43% of people with substance use disorders also struggle with conditions like anxiety or depression. Recovery is not just about staying away from substances; it is about addressing mental health too. When mental wellness is neglected, it can trigger relapses and complicate the healing process.

Addiction does not happen in isolation—it often stems from deeper pain, such as trauma, unresolved emotional issues, or other mental health struggles. Many people turn to substances like drugs or alcohol to cope, using them to escape or numb overwhelming emotions.

However, substances provide only a temporary escape. Take, for example, someone who starts using alcohol to deal with social anxiety. At first, drinking might seem to help, giving a false sense of ease. Over time, though, it becomes something the person relies on, and the anxiety intensifies whenever they are not drinking. It becomes a vicious cycle, making it harder to stop.

1. Recognize Your Triggers

Understanding what brings on stress or cravings is essential. Is it your work environment? Relationship conflicts? Unresolved traumas? Pinpointing these triggers can empower you to create strategies for managing them. If, for example, work pressures lead to stress, setting healthy boundaries or seeking support from a colleague can help. Taking time to journal and reflect on your emotions might also offer clarity and insight.

2. Create Your Mental Health Toolkit

Managing recovery is easier when you have a variety of tools to help. Consider adding the following practices to your daily routine:

  • Mindfulness and Meditation: Calming techniques like deep breathing or guided meditations can ground you when emotions feel overwhelming. Apps like Headspace or Calm can be a good starting point.
  • Journaling: Writing out your thoughts and emotions can be incredibly therapeutic. Take a few minutes each day to document your worries, hopes, and victories.
  • Structured Therapy Sessions: Speaking to an addictions counsellor can provide a safe space to navigate your feelings. I offer sessions tailored to your needs, helping you explore your emotions and develop healthier coping strategies.

3. Find a Community that Understands

Feeling isolated can make the recovery process feel even more daunting. It is important to surround yourself with a supportive network of people who truly understand and uplift you. This could be a local support group, an online community, or even a small circle of trusted friends. Being in a room with people who share similar experiences can bring comfort, encouragement, and hope.

Imagine attending a local recovery support group where you hear others’ stories, share your own, and receive understanding and words of encouragement. This sense of belonging is vital for strengthening your resolve and reducing feelings of loneliness.

Recovery is not a straight path. There will be setbacks and difficult moments, and that is okay. It does not mean you have failed—it just means you are human. With the right support system, navigating these feelings becomes less daunting. Compassion from loved ones, professionals, and yourself can make a big difference in maintaining your mental wellness.

If you or someone you love is battling addiction or mental health challenges, know that you are not alone. I am here to offer a guiding hand. My work goes beyond just helping those struggling with addiction. I am dedicated to supporting families, educating healthcare providers, and providing community support. Whether you need help navigating your recovery, want to learn more about addiction and mental health, or just need someone to talk to—I am here.

For more information on mental health support and recovery options, visit www.mandystokes.co.za or contact me directly at hello@mandystokes.co.za or 083 406 1301. Let us walk this path together and create lasting healing.

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www.sadag.org